Matching and Discovery
Search and match by interests, relationship goals and location. Use keywords and advanced filters to meet people who truly fit your life.
Our History and Mission
Since 2001, PositiveSingles.com has supported people living with herpes, HIV, HPV and other STDs by building a global, respectful community. Over the years we’ve invested in privacy controls, member verification and real human support. The UK site continues this mission with localised content and strong privacy culture suited to UK expectations.
Our vision is a stigma‑free space where members can form friendships, date, or build long‑term relationships at a comfortable pace. Every conversation should feel safe, honest and constructive.
- Member‑first product improvements and thoughtful service
- Privacy‑first principles and clear safety features
- Zero tolerance for discrimination, fraud or harassment
- Respectful disclosure at your own pace
What Makes Positive Singles Different
Unlike general dating platforms, Positive Singles is built for a specific community with clear privacy and support needs. That’s why our design focuses on confidence, discretion and kindness:
- Anonymous usernames and careful disclosure workflows
- Private albums with selective sharing and easy revoke
- Photo/video verification and secure, encrypted messaging
- A supportive atmosphere with success stories and forums
- Respect for boundaries and comfortable pacing
These features aren’t decorative — they reflect our core values and help members build sustainable relationships.
Core Features
To make dating and community life safer and easier, we provide a set of core features that cover discovery, communication, privacy, safety and support.
Private Albums & Selective Sharing
Keep photos in private albums and grant access only to people you trust. Revoke permissions at any time to protect your privacy boundaries.
Verification & Secure Messaging
Photo/video verification and secure, encrypted chat reduce fake profiles and phishing. Report or block suspicious behaviour instantly.
Community & Support
Access forums, blogs and success stories. Share experiences, learn from others and receive encouragement from people who understand.
Features → Safety & Benefits
| Feature | Safety Benefit | How to Use |
|---|---|---|
| Anonymous username | Reduces early privacy exposure in conversations | Use a nickname first; share more only when trust has been established |
| Private album | More control over sharing personal photos | Set photos to “authorised only”; revoke permissions whenever you need |
| Photo/video verification | Reduces impersonation and fake accounts | Finish verification and prioritise conversations with verified members |
| Secure in‑site messaging | Avoids early exposure of contact details or location | Chat within the site; be careful with links; report or block issues immediately |
| Report & block tools | Quick response to harassment, fraud or rule violations | Use tools right away and add a note; our team will review |
| Meetups & groups | Encourages public meetups to reduce offline risk | Choose safe public places; share your plan with a trusted contact |
Members and Community
Members come from different backgrounds — some recently diagnosed, others who have lived with their condition for years. Many are here for friendship and support, some for dating and long‑term relationships, and others for a calm, respectful community. The common thread: people want to be understood rather than labelled.
- Disclosure at your own pace
- Honesty, kindness and patience
- Share experiences to empower others
- Zero tolerance for shaming or harassment
Our community isn’t only about matching. Long‑term friendships and support networks grow here, and many members encourage each other in life and work. A strong community atmosphere lays the foundation for healthy relationships.
Community Guidelines
To maintain a safe, respectful and stigma‑free environment, we set clear rules. By joining Positive Singles you agree to follow these guidelines.
| Members Accept | Not Allowed | Examples |
|---|---|---|
| Respect privacy and disclosure pace | Coercion or exposing private information | Sharing someone’s health status or photos without consent |
| Honest profiles and genuine interaction | Fake profiles, impersonation, fraud | Using false photos, asking for money, phishing links |
| Kind communication, no harassment | Abuse, discrimination, hate speech, stalking | Repeatedly messaging to harass; mocking health status or body |
| Meet in public places safely | Unwanted private invitations or risky setups | Pressuring offline meetups or removing safe exit options |
| Follow law and platform rules | Illegal content, malware, attacks | Malicious scripts, scraping data, hate incitement |
- Accounts violating rules may be restricted or removed.
- We use human review and technical tools — please use report and block features.
- We prioritise protecting the affected member when reviewing incidents.
Privacy and Safety
We provide complete privacy and safety tools to help you communicate calmly at every stage:
- Strong passwords and device locks; start with a nickname
- Private albums and selective sharing with easy revoke
- Photo/video verification and secure messaging
- Report and block features to end harmful interactions
- Meetup guidance — choose public places and share your plan
Safety doesn’t mean distance. As trust develops, share more at a pace that feels right and build healthier relationships.
Developing and Roadmap
We iterate based on member feedback. Near‑term directions include:
- Finer privacy controls: album levels, view‑once options, subtle watermarks
- Smarter matching based on goals and conversation quality
- Automated safety prompts for suspicious behaviour or links
- Stronger event tools: interest groups, checklist packs and safety tips
- More UK‑focused resources and city pages
We welcome suggestions—please share them with our support team. Real needs from members drive our roadmap.
About FAQs
Do I have to disclose my health status?
No. Disclosure is your choice. Share at a pace that feels comfortable after trust has been built.
How can I avoid fake profiles?
Prioritise verified members, chat inside the site, be careful with external links and any money requests, and report suspicious behaviour immediately.
Any tips for meeting offline?
Choose public places, share your plan with a trusted contact, set clear boundaries and exit options, and put comfort and safety first.
Is the site mobile and desktop friendly?
Yes. The layout is responsive and tables are wrapped to prevent overflow on mobile.
What makes Positive Singles different?
A supportive community with privacy‑first features, verification, secure messaging and respect for boundaries.