Dating with herpes, HIV, HPV or another STD does not have to mean compromising your privacy. This guide shows you how PositiveSingles UK helps protect your safety online and offline, and how to use platform features to stay in control. You will find practical actions for anonymous and private chat, verification, event safety, device privacy, and more — all designed for confident, stigma‑free connections.
From nickname profiles to private photo sharing, PositiveSingles gives you control over what you reveal and when you reveal it.
Clear rules encourage respect and zero‑tolerance for harassment or discrimination. Reporting and blocking tools are built‑in.
Photo checks and profile review help reduce fake accounts, so you can focus on genuine, supportive connections.
Protect your account with a strong, private password and device security. Combine app privacy with discreet notification settings.
PositiveSingles is the leading herpes & STD dating community. Our experience informs thoughtful safety tools and guidance.
PositiveSingles provides flexible privacy controls and secure communication features to support safe dating. Combine platform settings with smart digital habits for best results. Below are the most effective tools and how you can apply them today.
Present your authentic self while protecting personal identifiers. The goal is honesty without oversharing sensitive data.
Small tweaks significantly improve discretion, especially on shared households or public commutes.
Healthy communication prioritises consent, clarity, and comfort. With PositiveSingles you can pace disclosure and decide what to share at each step. Let trust build gradually.
Some members enjoy community events or small meetups. Whether you host or attend, safety planning helps everyone feel comfortable.
Choose public, accessible venues. Set clear event rules about respectful conversation and privacy. Consider co‑hosts for support, and provide a visible way to contact organisers or staff if issues arise.
Arrive with your own transport plan. Keep personal details private. If you feel uncomfortable, step away and check in with a friend. Report concerns to organisers quickly.
Respect disclosure timelines. Avoid recording or sharing content without consent. Uphold zero‑tolerance for harassment and discrimination. Safety is everyone’s responsibility.
When you’re ready to meet in person, keep the first plan simple and transparent. PositiveSingles encourages members to agree on expectations, choose public locations, and prioritise comfort. Here is a practical framework.
| Step | Recommended Action | Why It Helps |
|---|---|---|
| Pre‑verify | Have a brief video chat to confirm identity | Builds confidence and reduces risk of misrepresentation |
| Choose venue | Pick a public café or park with good lighting | Comfortable spaces make conversations easier and safer |
| Share plan | Tell a trusted friend your meeting time and location | Provides a safety net and accountability |
| Transport | Arrive separately with your own exit options | Maintains independence and avoids pressure |
| Duration | Keep the first meeting to 60–90 minutes | Gives time to assess chemistry without fatigue |
| Boundaries | Decide what to share and what to keep private | Healthy pace supports trust and mutual respect |
Trust your instincts. If behaviour feels wrong, you have options. Here are common warning signs and what you can do right away.
Set a strong private password, enable device locks, and hide notification previews. Log out after use on shared devices and clear recent apps. Place the PS app in a non‑obvious folder to reduce casual visibility.
Use a friendly nickname. Avoid last names, workplace details, or school names on your public profile. You can share more personally once trust is established.
Start with general photos and avoid identifiable backgrounds. Use private albums for more personal images and revoke access if needed. Never feel pressured to share pictures early.
Anonymous chat lets you join community rooms without exposing personal contact information. You can exit at any time. Keep the conversation respectful and within your boundaries.
Stop responding. Use Block and Report. Save screenshots for reference. Tell a friend or organiser if this involved an event. Your safety and comfort come first.
Pre‑verify by video, choose a public venue, share your plan with a trusted contact, and arrive separately. Keep the first meeting short and communicate boundaries clearly.
Absolutely. Many members start with community chat and friendship. Take your time and move forward when you feel ready.
